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Calling for 100 Prayer Warriors

2010-06-21T19:08:00.000-04:00

Calling for 100 Prayer Warriors

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2010-05-17T11:58:00.002-04:00

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2010-03-09T10:57:00.004-05:00

Addie, bundled up for a Fort Loudoun Picnic

Finally, spring is in the air! This past Saturday was the first day this year the temperature gage reached 58 degrees F. Kevin didn't have to work this particular day, we so packed up a picnic lunch for a trip to the local State Park. It was a gorgeous day... we ate hamburgers, hot dogs, chips, potato salad, and homemade baked beans. Not to mention, there were cookies for dessert.

Following the picnic, a game of Frisbee took place. A traditional pose, by Kevin (Looking off into the "Sunset")

Spicing up a hotdog

Family togetherness... "No, Kevin, she cannot eat that unhealthy thing..."

Cooking on the grill

Fun Foto Day - by Aunt Jo

2010-02-25T16:23:00.009-05:00

Joleen did a fantastic job snapping some pictures today! Addie and I had a lot of fun together, too! Wow; being a mother is one of the greatest joys in the world, I believe. I am very blessed to have a beautiful little girl. I'm also SO blessed to have an awesome man taking great care of us! We're truly lucky girls -- or should I say, luckily blessed!

Thank you God for such great things You have done! I love You because you first loved me!

I'm so proud of her!

Looks like Addie is contemplating...

"Hey, puppy, what do you think about sitting in this basket... it is really strange... but very cozy, too."

"At least we're in here together."

"It'll be okay, just close your eyes, puppy."

"Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins" (1 John 4:10).

Pictures taken by Jo, edited by Darleen.

2010-02-20T12:22:00.004-05:00

Our Baby girl -- Addie -- is now 5 1/2 weeks old! Addie is starting to smile -- which causes great excitement in our household!

Yesterday, Addie had her first official bath. I don't think she was all too exctited about it... What do you think?

Our Addie...

2010-02-16T17:59:00.003-05:00

Addie looked so cute all dressed up for a trip to the Baby Emperior (a consignment shop). Baby and ME!

Addie has the most adorable cheeks to kiss.

Time with her daddy.

In deep conversation with Dad!

"Hi everyone!"

Adelaide Marie is HERE!!

2010-01-26T11:29:00.002-05:00

Born January 13, 2010 at 10:45 AM. Weighing 8 pounds 12 onces: 21 inches long!
I was so eager to dress my doll up for some pictures. Addie didn't like it much... I took these pictures when she was two days old.

My Book List

2009-12-19T12:53:00.009-05:00

In the past, I've kept a book list and checked them off as I completed each one. I found this method very helpful. Now I want to keep myself accoutable for the year 2010. My goal this year is to read 10 books. (I'm starting a bit early!)

Currently Reading: Anne of Green Gables, Love that Last, and Husdon Taylor's Spiritual Secret

Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs (audio version to listen together with Kevin)

Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp

When Sinner's Say "I Do": Discovering the Power of the Gosepl for Marriage by Dave Harvey

Love that Lasts: When Marriage Meets Grace by Gary and Betsy Ricucci

Faithful Woman and Their Extraordinary God by Noel Piper

The Life Model: Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You, The Essentials of Christian Living by James E. Wilder

Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery - Read

Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in NEed of Change by Paul Daivd Tripp

Hudson's Taylor's Spiritual Secret by Dr. & Mrs. Howard Taylor (complete reading together with Kevin)

The Hidden Art of Homemaking by Edith Schaeffer

The Heavenly Man by Brother Yun & Paul Hattaway

Writing Tools: 50 Essentials Stratagies for Every Writer by Roy Peter Clark

O Christmas Tree

2009-12-15T14:30:00.002-05:00

We were thrilled we found this live Christmas tree on sale!

Kevin making sure the tree was sturdy.

Our first Christmas as a married couple!

Look at our little tree topper. We seriously needed to upgrade, so Darleen's family brought over a bigger topper for us. :)

The finished product

"And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because hw as of the house and lineage of David;)

To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child.

And so it was, while they were there, that days were accomplished that she should be delivered.

And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.

And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.

And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.

And the angel said unto them, 'Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

And this shall be a sign upto you, Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.'

And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of heavenly host praising God, and saying, ' Glory to God in the highest, and on each peace, good will toward men'" (Luke 2:4-14).

Kissing Santa!

2009-12-15T12:49:00.001-05:00

Click on Our Newsletter (above) and you'll find our recent Christmas newsletter!!

Let the Show Begin

2009-12-12T10:13:00.003-05:00

December is here! Of course, snow came with it! December has been a busy month for our little family. Christmas baking, Christmas music, Christmas parties with family and friends, and much more. With all the hustle and bustle, many might over look the true meaning of Christmas. My cousin over at Homemaker's Cottage defines the Christmas like this, "a spirit (attitude) of thanksgiving, joy and giving, and one that keeps Christ in the center of celebration."

Christ was born, Christ was born to die, Christ was buried and rose again the third day!

"Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow..." Last week we had our first drop of snow!!!
Brrr.... it was cold outside, but inside it was cozy with the wood stove working.

The ALERT Men's Chorus came to perform a concert at our little church! Everyone enjoyed the Christmas hymn and carols!

L-R: Timmy, Benny Ceausu, & Byron Waltman (my brother)

Of course, the goodies were scrumptious.

Giving Thanks

2009-12-10T19:44:00.009-05:00

"O give thanks unto the LORD, for HE is GOOD" (Ps 136:1a)

As I look back over the year, I cannot help but give thanks to God for his bountiful blessings to us. First, in February, God united my life with Kevin's life! The joy I've experienced has been amazing. The knowledge that I've married God's best man for me was worth the wait during my single years.
Second, our new found family is adding in number. A beautiful baby is on the way! (I know our baby is beautiful, because God has made him/her wonderfully made!)
There is more and more and more to give thanks to God for...Thanksgiving Day has come and gone, but the time to give thanks to the Lord will always be here...
In November, my Uncle and his family traveled from Indiana to visit my family. For the Thanksgiving weekend, we were able to spend some time with them as well.
Here are a few photos to recap that week:
Kevin's gunSkeet shootingI jumped in for a photo (Kevin had to work this particular morning)Twyla The entire Waltman Clan
Cousins

Snow is in the air

2009-12-04T19:58:00.004-05:00

Forecast update for Tennessee...

We should be having snow tonight and tomorrow!!! :o)

By the way, I'll be posting a Thanksgiving post very shortly!

What will it be?

2009-10-12T16:21:00.001-04:00

Boy or Girl?!

It's a Zoo Day

2009-09-09T12:52:00.011-04:00

Obviously, we've been tremendously lax on posting updates on our blog. So sorry... You see, my Camera has been malfunctioning and needing a visit with the Fix-it-Man. It has been just recently that Cam can shoot properly again. However, with other busyness, I haven't made the time to post either...

So.. with some good pictures from the zoo, I thought everyone would enjoy seeing what I captured:

I think he is a pretty good catch, don't you agree? ;o)

Here is a photo taken by Kevin... artistic, eh?

Previously, I've always tried to give the impression that the zoo animals were taken somewhere other than in the zoo. For example, try not to show the cages, bars, etc...but zoom in, snap a photograph that would give the image of being totally free in the wild. With that, here is the elegant Scarlet Macaw. God truly has made things beautiful! I just love the vibrant colors? By the way, Mr. Macaw could even say hello!

The common Monarch butterfly.

Kevin snaped a picture of this Blue Butterfly

Kevin took this pictures of the African Wild Dog.

A Self-Portrait, using a rock for a tripod!

It was quite warm by mid-afternoon at the zoo. I found it very refreshing sitting under the sprinkler system!

A cute baby money born in 2008. Isn't he still very little?!

Kevin-- monkeying around.

Now, remember, at the zoo, you seriously don't want to fall in with the animals. It can be very hazardous to the health and well being of the animals if they decide to eat you for lunch. Not to mention, it might not be too pleasant to be considered some-one's lunch. :)

The Rhinos were having a bit of a hustle

I loved the RED Panda-- he looks so snugly. :o)

Kevin demonstrating the proper mount on a tortoise

Ride 'em, Cowboy!

2009-07-18T12:06:00.003-04:00

Independance Day was an exciting celebration! We enjoyed the day with Darleen's family and the Ceausu family. Thanks to Mr. Ceausu, we all had a chance to ride his jet boat and do a little water tubing.

Here are a few pictures snapped throughout the day. Enjoy!

A Post? A Post? Shall We Post a Post?

2009-06-19T11:56:00.003-04:00

Um... Life has been extremely busy these days. Kevin has been working full time, and more. Any moment he has off, it is time for extra sleep, Tutor Training for a home-based job position, and travels to various locations.

As for me, morning sickness hits at various times of the day, so in between spurts of nausea, I try to accomplish all the tasks around the house, cooking, cleaning, and a little reading. (Currently, I'm reading three books, a Tale of Two Cities, Vanya, and a child rearing book.)

In our travels, Kevin and I drove down to the Nashville Advanced Training Institute Conference. It was superb! Various speakers spoke powerful messages about Christian living. Also, we were able to visit Biblical Missions WorldWide (BMW) June 10th, a mission board located outside of Atlanta, GA. It was a great time of fellowship with the state-side BMW team. We learned a lot and are now praying about what direction God would have us to go.

Summer is almost here, isn't it? The weather in Tennessee has sure heated up... We praise the Lord for Air Conditioning! :)

Well, a better update will soon follow.

'Till next time, Tally HO!

Camping Citico

2009-05-22T12:04:00.014-04:00

The weather has been a beaut these days. It has been sunny, warm, and breezy. Perfect weather for camping.

Kevin and I took a two day camping trip at Cherokee's National Forest this week. What a delightful time we had together. We were able to get away from the norm of busy life, spend some quality time together, experience God's beautiful handiwork, and take time to praise God for the many blessings He has given to us.

The area we camped totally picturesque. Unfortunately, I failed to bring along my SLR Canon camera. I missed my good friend. Nonetheless, I did carry the compact Canon Powershot camera. It did the job it was supposed to do: capture an overview of our time together.

Here are a few snaps shots of our time in Citico, Tennessee:

Feeling accomplished after setting up camp.

Supper with a side of Pork and Beans

We had to take a self portrait together!

The creek bank just outside our tent.

Chilling the Crush!

It took a while to start up our fire, but Kevin did a fine job at getting a good blaze that lasted all through the night.

Using a rock as a tripod and setting the 10-sec timer, we snapped a couple's portrait.

Not forgetting this! :)

Citico Creek

Kevin all snuggled up for the night. Warm!

Together

On a camping trip, always bring a cap, unless you want to display your bad hair day.

Goofing around...

Apple-Cheddar-Sausage Quiche was for breakfast. It was scrumptious!

Our morning devotions.

Butterflies

After breakfast and devotions, we headed for a long hike. Along the way, I found this pretty flower tree.

Here we are again.

I was really missing the SLR Camera by this time...

We found a box turtle taking his time on the trail.

Kevin and Mr. Tortoise posing for a picture.

Kevin with his trustee truck. (Note: this truck has been a great blessing. With the purchase of our travel home in Nov., this truck was included in the price. We still cannot believe how perfectly God has provided for our needs. When the times comes for mission deputation, this truck will haul our home around.)

A Married Couple!!

2009-05-15T11:37:00.002-04:00

First Come Love, Then Comes Marriage...

2009-05-14T17:58:00.003-04:00

...then comes the Westons with a baby carriage!

We're pleased to announce that we're going to have a baby! We're praising God for His little blessing to us!

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Shoot at Something

2009-05-05T17:18:00.006-04:00

Goal setting is important, because as a preacher once said, "If you shoot at nothing, you'll get bull's eye every time" (Tom Harmon).

It is also very important to set the right goals. One of my goals is to learn to pray fervently. I found this quote very encouraging: "When it is hardest to pray, pray the hardest" (Tom Harmon).

What are we shooting at?!

Wedding Slideshow

2009-04-26T21:32:00.001-04:00

Part 1 & 2 of 3:

(more to come)

Testing YouTube Movies on Blogger.

2009-04-25T17:04:00.003-04:00

Here is a sample of our Honeymoon pictures! I am hoping to post a YouTube video of our wedding pictures in the near future. Keep a lookout!

More Honeymoon photos...

2009-04-25T12:16:00.000-04:00

Kevin's 25th Birthday Party!

2009-04-11T16:52:00.000-04:00

Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday, dearest KEVIN!
Happy Birthday to you!!

"Kevin, you're the dearest person to my heart. You have touched my life in more ways than can be counted! Thank you for being the BESTEST HUSBAND! I Love you! Happy Birthday! Love, Darleen"

After a week long of rainy weather, Wednesday, April 8, turned out gorgeous -- great for a cookout! For Kevin's early birthday party with Darleen's family, we all enjoyed a hot-dog wiener roast.

Kevin received a Fire-pit for outside our trailer home.

Darleen asked: "Will you need to read the instructions to put that together?"

Kevin's replied: "No, men don't need instructions for such things!"

The food line! Yum...

The Newly Weds... Aw...

Brandon made a lead soldier for Kevin, with the Weston CREST painted on the shield. Kevin has a nice collection of hot sauce after his birthday. Tabasco is a favorite! Not to mention, if the cooking is bad, just add a dose of Tabasco and all is well!

Yummy White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake (made by me, Darleen!)

PREP TIME: 1 Hr
COOK TIME:1 Hr
READY IN 10 Hrs
Original recipe yield 1 - 9 inch cheesecake
SERVINGS 16

INGREDIENTS
1 cup chocolate cookie crumbs
3 tablespoons white sugar
1/4 cup butter, melted
1 (10 ounce) package frozen raspberries
2 tablespoons white sugar
2 teaspoons cornstarch
1/2 cup water
2 cups white chocolate chips
1/2 cup half-and-half cream
3 (8 ounce) packages cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup white sugar
3 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
DIRECTIONS
In a medium bowl, mix together cookie crumbs, 3 tablespoons sugar, and melted butter. Press mixture into the bottom of a 9 inch springform pan.
In a saucepan, combine raspberries, 2 tablespoons sugar, cornstarch, and water.
Bring to boil, and continue boiling 5 minutes, or until sauce is thick. Strain sauce through a mesh strainer to remove seeds.
Preheat oven to 325 degrees F (165 degrees C). In a metal bowl over a pan of simmering water, melt white chocolate chips with half-and-half, stirring occasionally until smooth.
In a large bowl, mix together cream cheese and 1/2 cup sugar until smooth. Beat in eggs one at a time. Blend in vanilla and melted white chocolate. Pour half of batter over crust. Spoon 3 tablespoons raspberry sauce over batter. Pour remaining cheesecake batter into pan, and again spoon 3 tablespoons raspberry sauce over the top. Swirl batter with the tip of a knife to create a marbled effect.
Bake for 55 to 60 minutes, or until filling is set. Cool, cover with plastic wrap, and refrigerate for 8 hours before removing from pan. Serve with remaining raspberry sauce.

A new tradition has procured (as seen by the photo below). Brandon and Kevin decided to have a yearly dive to commemorate Kevin's birthday; if, that is, they happen to be together. The temperature was rather chilly when they took the plunge!

Status:

* Weather temperature: 48 degrees F

* Water temperature: COLD! (note: This TN pool is not heated)

Mighty MEN! :)

Camp fire, Smores, Singing, and more...

2009-04-05T23:02:00.000-04:00

Wooley's was a neat little store in Idllywild, CA. There were so many wool hats, scarves, and other Nick-nack items. It was fun to browse.

Yum... Kevin brought us a popsicle cheesecake to share! ;) We love cheesecakes...

(Does this picture need a caption?) Yupperz -- I can safely say we both enjoy mushy-gushy pictures! :)

"Where are you going on your honeymoon?"

2009-03-19T15:04:00.000-04:00

That has been the question for weeks before our honeymoon. I even asked where we were going. Kevin wanted to keep it a surprise! Oh, yes, I was pleasantly surprised! The locations chosen were perfect; however, better yet, the company was simply superb! Indeed, my husband is awesome!

Since everyone's curiosity was raised to where the honeymoon was to take place, I will now inform all.

First, we went to Ontario, CA. It was very exciting to share our first memories together as a married couple! It was lovely seeing the snow peaked mountains from our hotel also.

Second, we enjoyed our stay in Buena Park for a few days. Then, Kevin surprised me by taking me up to a cottage in Idyllwild! We had many blessed memories together, ones I will never forget.

Our wedding was simply wonderful! Looking back on that day, God did a wondrous work to bring our lives together for a single purpose of loving Him, loving others, and loving each other. God's ways are beautiful and very fulfilling. Kevin is a tremendous man, and the love of my life! He loves me, cherishes me, and makes me feel like the best girl in the whole wide world. Indeed, he is the best guy I have ever known and I praise God ever day that He planned our lives together!

Now, for some more pictures... Enjoy!

(Coming Soon: pictures from Idyllwild)

Love & Marriage

2009-03-17T17:59:00.000-04:00

More honeymoon pictures to come....

To Wed...

2009-02-12T13:00:00.000-05:00

… in 16 days!

As I contemplate the days ahead, the joys and responsibilities of marriage, I also look back to how God brought me to this place. He has taught me many lessons. He has showed me how to wait patiently for His best. He has given me His perfect match!

This morning I read an excellent post entitled "How will I know when I've met Prince Charming?" Kristy, author of Homemaker's Cottage Blog, has been a tremendous example to me through the years. (Not to mention, she is my cousin). As I read her post, I thought back to this very same question I had not too long ago, and how God has confirmed His Best Man for me!

I talk a lot around here about respecting your husband, raising children, and other topics relating to married women. I'd like to spend a little more time this week addressing the needs of single girls and women.

The struggles and dreams of young women are very dear to my heart and, believe it or not, it hasn't been all that many years ago that I was in those shoes! (I know, I'm married with 3 kiddos and I seem so old!).

A question I've heard a lot from young women- and one I asked a lot myself when I was single- is, "How will I know when I've met the right man?"

Knowing when you've found Mr. Right can seem like an overwhelming responsibility, especially if you don't have Christian parents to guide and encourage you. I am by no means some kind of super spiritual counselor, and I don't have all the answers, but here are a few things to keep in mind if you're wondering how to judge if a young man is "the one" for you or not.

1. Don't rely on your emotions. Oh my, I can't say this strongly enough!
Don't rely on your emotions alone to lead you! Emotions are one of the most fickle and sometimes deceiving aspects of human nature. While those warm, fuzzy emotions of love and desire will be present when you've met the one God has for you, feelings alone are not a trust worthy guide. It's very possible to be "in love" with the wrong guy. Your emotions must be brought under the subjection and lordship of Jesus Christ, just the same as your thoughts and desires must be.

2. Surrender your expectations to God. Every girl tends to harbor expectations, especially in regard to marriage and romance. Unfortunately, our expectations can sometimes be a deadly enemy to contentment, and can even hinder the unfolding of God's will in our life. A lot of times, we girls tend to plan out our entire life- I'll meet Mr. Romeo at eighteen, marry at twenty, have my first baby at twenty-one... you know what I'm talking about. When life disappoints our expectations and our perfect little plans start to fall apart (as they often do), the resulting frustration can seem overwhelming and even threaten our trust in the wisdom and providence of God. Let go of your plans, ideas and expectations and trust your future solely into the hands of your all-knowing heavenly Father. When you trust that He truly knows best, you
can rest content that He will bring the "right one" to you in His perfect
time.

3. Don't expect perfection. Unfortunately, your Mr. Right will not be Mr. Perfect, any more than you are Miss Perfect. It's only wise to expect the man you marry to strive to have a godly character and better himself as a person. But keep in mind that your man will be a work in progress,
just like you are! We girls seem to want our man to have the energy, finesse, and excitement of youth, but the wisdom, experience and skill of an old sage! It's possible to hold your ideals so high that a young man may feel completely inept at winning your confidence and respect. Am I suggesting that you lower your standards and "sell out" for whoever comes along? Absolutely not. But do keep in mind that you will not only marry an imperfect human, but a man who (like you) has a lot of room to grow.
4. Seek godly counsel. Jeremy and I both turned to the spiritual leaders
in our lives time and again while seeking God's will for marriage. For me, it was my parents and a few trusted friends (not my peers); for Jeremy, it was his pastor and several godly, older men. If your parents are not Christians, seek to cultivate relationships with godly people who are older and wiser than you. If you are blessed to be in a Christian home, value the advice and perspective of your parents. Pray that God will give them wisdom in leading you.
5. Measure a man by Biblical standards, not worldly standards. Society puts a lot of emphasis on success, looks, talent, and money. While these things are not inherently wrong, they are not the things
God's Word instructs us to look for in a man. If worldly success is the
yardstick for measuring the worth of a man, then Hollywood's idols would make the best husbands on the planet, right? The rampant divorce among celebrities, people who suposively "have it all", tells us otherwise. Don't measure a man by his career, how much money he makes, his talents, his good looks (or lack thereof), how "hot" he is or any other characteristic that is sensual in nature. The question you should be asking when evaluating a young man is, "Is he seeking God's best in every aspect of his life?" Always use the Bible as your measuring stick!

6. Value character above appearances or ability. Every girl dreams of marrying the handsome prince, but don't let looks fool you! As women, we can easily see the folly of a guy judging a girl by her figure or how
pretty she is. But how many girls do you know who think a guy isn't worth a plug nickel unless he fits into the Tall Dark & Handsome category, with personality and talent oozing out his ears to boot?! A guy may be cute- or even downright gorgeous- but is he honest? Does he have a good work ethic? Is he kind? Loyal? Responsible? Under authority? There's nothing wrong with appreciating good looks, but train your heart to tune into things that last. Outward appearances fade, abilities may come and go, but godly character will grow and mature as the years pass. Believe me, you'll appreciate your husband's looks a lot better if he has good character to go with it!

Kristy Howard is a homeschool graduate, the happy wife of Jeremy, and stay-at-home-mama to Amy, Emily, and Keith! Visit her Homemaker's Cottage Blog here.

Our Home Sweet Home

2009-01-31T21:19:00.000-05:00

Kevin is the most awesome provider for me. Look at this cute little house he purchased for our new home sweet home! Not only is it cute with its small size, which will make it easy for me to keep clean and tidy , but it is also excellent for our future goal to travel around the USA for mission deputation.

Not to mention, take a look a Kevin's awesome truck!! Don't you just love it?!! It has some heavy power, as you can tell!! I told my sisters years ago that I was going to marry a guy with a big truck. Well, indeed it is going to happen!

"...the hand of the diligent maketh rich" (Proverbs 10:4).

A Hike to the Mountains

2009-01-30T15:26:00.000-05:00

Tennessee had a colder spell a couple weeks ago and, with it, snow! Kevin had the brilliant idea to go hiking in the mountains. We enjoyed our time together.... We even had a couple snow ball fights!

Joleen was our chaperone for the day! As you can see, the snow was really deep. :)

THE DAY KEVIN PROPOSED

2009-01-30T14:11:00.000-05:00

It was a Monday. The sun was shining. The sky was blue. It was a gorgeous day. Kevin had several interviews for his particular job that Monday morning; therefore, I knew I would not see him until evening.

The day proceeded with nothing extraordinary. You see, I had already come to my own conclusion that Kevin would not propose for a few more weeks. The previous Thursday, Kevin prepared a surprise picnic at a local park. I figured he would do several of these surprise outings so as to throw me off. Sure enough…I was thrown for a couple loops.

3:00pm came around – My three youngest siblings and I decided to make a little turkey piñata for our soon arriving Thanksgiving celebration. We all got into the décor of this little creature. As we were applying the papier-mâché, I received a phone call from Kevin! As always, I am thrilled to receive any phone calls from him. I became rather disappointed because Kevin mentioned the bosses wanted to do a couple more interviews and it would take a few more hours. I sighed, but said I looked forward to seeing him in time for supper. I continued on with the piñata project with my little sister and two little brothers. Little did I realize that Kevin’s phone conversation was a cue for Kayleen to take me for a walk at our near by National Park, called Fort Loudon.

She came in the room and said, “Let us go for a walk, Darleen.”

“Sure,” was my reply. “But let me help Colleen, Benjamin, and Bryce finish this turkey piñata.”Then mom came and suggested I should go for a walk with Kayleen. I said, “Okay, just a few more minutes and we’ll have this done. We still have plenty of light to go walking.”

I thought it was rather strange that Mom and Kayleen stopped doing their projects and found the turkey piñata very intriguing. I even said, “Hey, we don’t need help finishing this. We can do it.” Little did I realize they were trying to speed up the process because Kevin was waiting for me. With the newfound enthusiasm from Mom and Kay, we finally completed our Thanksgiving Turkey piñata! Hooray! I was now ready to go for a stroll with Kayleen. However, I then asked Kayleen, “Why do we need the camera?”

“Oh, remember, we need to take those pictures our friend’s requested?” was Kayleen’s reply.

“Oh, yes, I remember.” I continued by questioning whether we could snap the photos after our walk.

“No, I want to take it along just in case I find a beautiful tree to take a picture of,” she said.

I was satisfied with the answer and did not suspect a thing, surprisingly. If anyone knows me, I am very aware of any new and exciting happenings coming on the horizon.

As we were driving the 7-miles to the Park, I noticed the gorgeous weather and commented how lovely it was and how perfect it would be for a wedding. As soon as we parked in the park entrance, I surveyed the area. I remember mentally noticing that Kevin’s car wasn’t there. This was the only parking lot within a 2-mile radius of the area, so I knew nothing was up. (Later I learned Kevin literally walked approximately two miles so he could hide his van somewhere I would not see it.)

Kay and I continued our walk up a long windy road, ending at a secluded lakefront. At the last part of our stroll, I saw a familiar figure standing off in the distance. It looked so much like Kevin, but it couldn’t be, I thought to myself. “Who is that?” I asked Kay. “That’s not Kevin, is it?” Then the figure turned around. Sure enough, it was Kevin with a solemn look to his face.

“What are you doing here?” I questioned.

Kevin simply said, “Just wait and see.” He then grabbed me by the hand and took me to the shoreline.

Sarcastically I said, “A few more hours on those interviews, eh?”

“Patience” Kevin replied.

There I walked down the shoreline with my hand griped by Kevin’s. I saw a bundle of red and orange gerbera daisies resting on a stack of Kevin’s journals on an embankment near the lake. Kevin took me over near the flowers and books and told me to take a look in the first page of one of the journals. I found a letter tucked inside. I opened the envelope, took out the handwritten letter and started reading. It took me forever to read the one side of the letter… His words touched my heart. I looked up at Kevin, and then he told me to look in the envelope again. I looked and saw a wonderful gift inside. Kevin took it out for me, as I was motionless. He dropped to one knee and asked whether I would be his little darling forever. Oh, with joy overflowing the only reply I could give was, “Of course”! Truly, Kevin made me the happiest girl ever when he asked me to be his wife.

I am so blessed by God to have Kevin as my guy and love for always.

Darleen's Story

2009-01-30T14:06:00.000-05:00

- I met him, I loved him, I became his!

Prior to life with Kevin, I had many questions about determining God’s will regarding a life partner. Since I was young, I had purposed to allow the guidance of my parents to help me evaluate and determine God’s best for me in choosing a husband. I also desired to keep my heart emotionally free from entanglements with other young men. I wanted my first love to be the man I married. I wanted my first kiss to go to my husband. I wanted not just a good man, but God’s best man.

Earlier in 2007, the Lord, through a broken relationship, taught me some very previous and important lessons in trusting God to provide His best for me. He taught me that my life and happiness is not based upon marriage or the fulfillment of dreams, but God Himself.

These moments of questioning whether God would bring about His best for my life were bitter sweet. Yet, the promise God had given to me years earlier became even more real during the uncertainty of what God had in store for me in the future. Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass”. I felt God was directing me to missions and to marry a godly man and raising a godly family with him, but only God could bring this vision and desire of mine to pass. My job was to only trust in Him to bring about His best in my life.

As many godly leaders have said, the second most important decision in your life is your decision about your life partner. I then began to seek Scripture more fervently and listen more intently to the counsel of godly leaders for the essential qualities that should characterize any man desirous of pursuing me. With the help of others, I compiled a list of these qualities: (see http://www.tdharmon.com/)

He is not only saved, but he truly loves the Lord and is committed to Him and His word. Mark 12:30

He is morally pure and lives a life of high moral standards. He is a man of character. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20

He lives in harmony with authorities. (i.e. parents, church, government) Eph. 6:1,2; 1 Peter 2:13-19

He accepts Himself – best evidenced by a humble and contrite heart. He is temperate and not given to anger. Matt. 11:29; Prov. 22:24; 1 Cor. 9:25

He loves his parents, especially his mother. If His parents are divorced, or he has been wronged deeply, does he forgive and honor them? Eph. 6:3

He has purpose in life that includes a high priority on spiritual leadership. He loves children. Eph. 5:24-28; Eph. 6:4

He is honest and self-denying. He cares deeply about the feelings of those he is responsible for. Luke 9:23

Not to mention, I began looking at qualities I needed to help that man God would bring into my life, if I were to marry someday. (See http://www.tdharmon.com/) Also, I compiled these questions to ask myself when and if God allowed a suitor to pursue me in the future!

Do I fully respect this man the way a wife is called to respect her husband?

Can I eagerly submit to him as the church submits to Christ?

Do I have faith to follow this man no matter where he may lead?

Can I love this man with a tender, affectionate love?(1 Cor. 11:3; Eph. 5:22, 33; Col. 3:8; Titus 2:4-5)

THE DAY I MET KEVIN:
I met Kevin Weston for the very first time at a Romanian church in Georgia. It was a Friday evening, April 4th. It had been a long day, and my siblings and another family from our church had traveled from Knoxville, TN to assist in a Children’s Institute (CI) at Gwinnett Church. Kevin was the group leader for the CI. He flew from California with a group from his church. The Children’s Institute set the stage for the start of a special relationship, but I never imagined it at the time. I never noticed any fireworks or anything really special about our encounter. I do recall greeting Kevin with a handshake and noticing his firm, but gentle, grip. I also remember how short I was compared to him.

My impression of Kevin after the two weeks of working under his leadership was excellent. I saw that he had a real passion for the things of the Lord and for serving Christ. I also saw that he had a clear direction in life, which included missions. We even had spoken on several occasions of our goals and thoughts of mission work. I never thought much about a deeper relationship with him, though. He was from California and there was no real opportunity to get to know him better. Also, I always though until a young man has come and specifically expressed his interest in me, I should view him only as a brother, or possibly as another woman's husband.

Life went on after the Children’s Institute. I had heard that Kevin did have an interest in me by this time, but was still uncertain to God’s leading. In mid-May, Kevin’s Dad called my father to see if my parents were open for a possible relationship. Later that week, Kevin called requesting to seek me for a courtship. He was ready to go forward into a deeper relationship. My parents were impressed with Kevin from the first time they met him. They saw his depth of character. At the time of his call, they inquired more of his life purpose, mission, love for God, etc. After their meeting, they were happy to give him permission to pursue a relationship with me.

In my heart, I knew Kevin was an exceptional guy, and I would be happy to get to know him. I was a tough nut, though, making sure to not let on that I had an interest in getting to know him better. I figured if Kevin was interested and God directed him towards me, he would come out and visit without any encouragement from me. I also wanted a thorough inspection done of Kevin. First an inspection from my parents, then from a retired Pastor who had counseled me over the years. Kevin was more than willing to travel 11-hours to Arkansas to meet with him for a few days. I was shocked and totally impressed!

THE VISIT FROM KEVIN:

I remember very vividly the day Kevin arrived at Tyson McGee airport. I was excited, to say the least. I was nervous also. I was sitting in the corridor of the terminal gate, with all my siblings around. The plane had landed. Kevin was to walk down the passageway any minute. Each second was prolonging in my mind. To break the nervousness I was feeling, I told my siblings, “Kevin must have the private room in the back of the airplane.” However, my inner thoughts returned: “How should I respond to him? Should I smile?” These thoughts were soon interrupted when I saw Kevin’s tall statue appear through the terminal gate.

“Could Kevin be God’s best for me?” would have been one of my mental thoughts. I had observed Kevin, talked to his sisters, his mother and father. I talked to my friends who knew him. I talked to him numerous times also. I watched Kevin a lot. I asked him a lot of questions. I was hopeful of seeing Kevin here in Tennessee, coming to win my heart. At that moment, I did not realize the tremendous love I would soon feel for Kevin – this tall, dashing guy. However, one thing I did experience was a deep seated peace within my heart. I wanted above all things to do the Lord’s will in these matters of the heart. My heart felt at peace, my heart felt as if I had known Kevin Weston all along.

My heart slowly came to care for Kevin during his visit. I really liked him! I saw his character. I saw his love for God, and children. I saw his zeal to walk in God’s ways regardless of the cost. I saw how he honored authorities. As I watched him carefully, I saw that he was authentic and real. He truly had a vibrant walk with God – not a two-faced walk. He truly loved Christ and all He had done for him. Kevin had life purpose to which I could follow, and lived a life of high moral standards. I realized by this time that Kevin was – um, wow; how do I put it in words – wonderful!

THE DAY COURTSHIP began with Kevin:
June 24th was yet another momentous day for me. Kevin had already asked my parent’s permission to court me in May, yet still hadn’t asked me officially because I conveyed wanting more time to see him in person. I also wanted him to speak with my Pastor/counselor from Arkansas before entering a courtship. It was on this trip to Arkansas that Kevin asked me personally at this time to enter a deeper relationship with him.

On this Wednesday afternoon, it was off to Pinnacle Mountain. Kevin knew how much I enjoyed hiking; therefore, he chose to take me up the difficult side of the mountain. I was very pleased. During the ascent, we did a bit of rock climbing. From the top, we saw the vast view of the Arkansas countryside. The sun was just setting, the wind was blowing. While Kevin sat on a large rock, I grabbed my camera and shot a couple shots of the view. I then set beside him. I realized the seriousness in the mood. Kevin was going to speak... I was excited and nervous at the same time. I knew my answer before he even asked. I knew deep in my heart he was the type of man I wanted to marry and live with the rest of my life.

Seriousness was expressed in Kevin’s tone of voice. He expressed his desire to court me, and Lord willing, marry me someday. I cannot remember all the lovely words he said, but I remember that it touched my heart. At this time, I asked how God had directed him to ask me. I also asked in what ways he could see me being an assistant to him. Both his answers confirmed what God had spoken to me. With enthusiasm, I said it would be my delight and pleasure to court him!

I still remember the sigh of relief Kevin gave, then the most winning smile any person could ever give! That smile, with those blue and radiant eyes, captivated my heart. It was lovely praising God together for the work He had begun and would continue to do.

Our courtship period was not without challenges. Nonetheless, everyone involved stood firm that this indeed was the Lord’s will! We have experienced God’s grace and faithfulness in spite of Satan’s attacks. With testing, we have come to a greater confidence that whatever the future holds, that God has brought our lives together.

Kevin's Story

2009-01-30T10:53:00.000-05:00

- I met her, I loved her, I asked her to be mine!

At a very young age, I sensed God calling me to the mission field someday. I remember praying at this young age whether God wanted me to live a life of service alone or with some young lady whom He would choose for me. God impressed upon me that the life He called me to could not be carried out alone, and that even then He was preparing a rib that would join me in the work that He would eventually impress upon both our hearts. Through the years I often wondered what my girl would be like or even, at times, who she was. Little did I realize she would be better than any thing I ever imagined, and that she would be the answer to my many prayers.

The Day I Met Darleen:
I remember the first time I met Darleen Holly Waltman. It wasn’t “love at first sight” but, most definitely, it was “impressed at first sight.” I had talked to her briefly on the phone a few weeks prior to the children’s program in Atlanta, Georgia. I was surprised at how easily we conversed on our first conversation. I thought little else about it until we met. I was out in the foyer preparing the final details for the program when she walked up to me for the first time. We mutually spotted each other. I stepped forward as she came towards me and reached out her hand. The hand I received in mine was small but determined. I immediately sensed a deep inner strength in her. I was instantaneously impressed that night as I watched her jump in to a task that I knew she wouldn’t have chose. She was willing and able to serve others and her God.

Later in the week there were a few days of relaxation before we jumped back into the full swing of the upcoming weekend. During those days our group went to a local lake in Tennessee. There I started a conversation with Mrs. Waltman about missions. We had a good time sharing many of our experiences. I also was able to glean from her wisdom on the matter, since the Waltman family served as missionaries for many years. Towards the end of the conversation, Darleen walked up and joined in for a few minutes. We were talking about raising funds for missions and she surprised me by saying, “why not do it like George Muller?” In other words, “depend solely on God for provision of funds.” This surprised me because I had always prayed for a girl who was willing to do some thing like that. I had met few young ladies who would be willing to do this. I could tell then this was a girl that was willing to step out in faith and serve the Lord no matter what. At this time also, I started becoming aware of Darleen’s love for the Lord and her call to missions. Following our conversation we went for a boat ride out on the lake. I could not help but find myself watching her out of the corner of my eye. Darleen was unlike other girls I knew. She seemed genuinely caught up with the things of the Lord and I could see that she had a deep relationship with Him. I was keenly interested as I watched her look out over the lake while we rode in the boat. I could tell this was a girl that loved God and had a deep relationship with Him, and I was very impressed.

Traveling back to Georgia for the Children’s program, I was able to talk to Darleen more and was further impressed with her commitment to God. I was beginning to wonder if possibly she could be God’s will for my life, but I was far from sure. Mrs. Waltman and I had a conversation about this, in which I mentioned that I was interested in Darleen but would need to pray, and pray I did over the next month. I prayed and fasted. For a while it seemed as though God was not going to give me a clear answer. I even wondered if God was going to answer at all. One Sunday, in late April, I was sitting in church and I suddenly felt impressed by God that Darleen was the one to pursue. I wasn’t sure if God was going to work everything out but it was clear to me that God wanted me to see if she was the one He had designed for me to be my helpmeet.

I prayed about it some more and during that time Darleen and I passed a few casual e-mails, and I think both of us were noticing that there was definitely something here. We both were surprised at how well we matched and to the point that we both wondered if the other was making it up. In late May, I called the Waltmans and asked them if I could court their wonderful daughter. They said yes but I decided to ask Darleen in person when I was out there. However, at this time, I did receive permission to contact her and we started communicating on a regular basis. Over and over again we were surprised to see how God had formed us to be so similar in so many ways. I was impressed with how easily conversation came with her. In fact, we clocked in some rather lengthy calls. The Lord, through a number of circumstances, confirmed that I was on the right track and that He had a plan to bring a very wonderful girl into my life.

My Trip to Tennessee:
In mid-June, I traveled out to Tennessee to spend time with the family and get to know Darleen better. While out there I was yet again surprised how well I slid into family life and how already the Lord was knitting Darleen’s and my heart together. On top of Pinnacle Mountain I asked her to court me with the intention and goal of marriage. She said yes. One fond memory was a special prayer spot Darleen and I chose together. I have never had a deeper prayer relationship with anyone else in my life. I was surprised at how the Lord had prepared us both for each other. In early July I left for Ireland on a month long mission trip. I wasn’t sure how it was going to work with us being a part so long, especially since we just had started our courtship. Nonetheless, even an ocean away we managed to grow closer to each other and the Lord as He drew our hearts together.

My Move to Tennessee:
In September I moved out to Tennessee to get a job out there, and on October 20th I got the chance to ask the love of my life to become my wife. She answered simply but truly, with radiance and joy in her voice, “of course”. I can still remember the look on her face – one of love and tenderness. I was elated! I don’t believe there was a luckier guy and I can’t believe that God has blessed me with such a wonderful girl. I look forward to the future when God can use our relationship to further His Kingdom and glorify His Name.

About US

2008-12-01T17:40:00.000-05:00

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